There's a misunderstaning about something. I never said the words "I need to depend on someone". My point, maybe better said, is that we need other people in our lives to "help" us become the whole person we can be. Again, if we didn't need others and we could just be content with "loving ourselves", we'd all be happy campers living in isolation. As far as The Beauty is in the "I". My opinion is that it sounds nice on paper but doesn't always apply in true life. It's still my firm opinion (which I think many don't want to think could be true) a little bit of chicken with eggs says that you can't truly love/accept yourself unless you've also received some of that from others as well. I get the feeling many would be more than happy if they never see me here again. I'm not saying it's not "me' that's the problem but a good part of it could be that my different perspective just make some people start to think of something they're afraid of because it goes against what you've believed for so long.

Hey SpazKatt, maybe the reason you got so few replies is that you're being way too specific on your requirements of what you're looking for?