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Old May 06, 2008, 09:25 AM
nowheretorun nowheretorun is offline
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i am so sorry that i didnt validate what you said previously in a better way Sky... of course we are very concerned for all here... it is kind of you to consider those who might be trigged... we have no intention of causing more harm with these prayers...

you did pray for (((all suffering)))) and that really does matter to us all... and i feel way too glorified by your request for forgiveness Sky.. i am not God...

we each have to deal with our own set of emotions... imo, it is out of line for me to forgive you for doing what you believe is a good act... in essence, i know we are each saying the same thing... that healing for all is our common goal....

forgiveness (for the abusers) is something i had considered and i'm still thinking that part of this over....

sometimes, (not talking about you) when forgiveness is offered, some may see that as acceptance of the behaviors which are forgiven.. praying for and forgiving to me are two separate steps in the same process...

forgiveness for abuse can be given over and over and over, but, if the behavior doesnt change, the harm continues.... somehow, it needs to end for all to heal...

in forgiving, i will do so internally, and i will pray for patience as i wait for those who harm to grow..

as always, best wishes for you Sky and thank you for all you do as you try to help us with this...