I remember the day my dad was driving us to or from a museum when we were in our early 20s I think. He apologized for all the bad stuff he'd done to us. And we said no to worry about. Now I'd like to yell at him for those things and all the stuff he's done since- almost dying several times. But I don't want there to be bad blood between us. He's 72 and Id hate to have him dir after a bad conversation. I guess I should think about this differently.