I've been in a relationship for my partner for 6 years now. My issue is that he's truly paralyzed when it comes to going into public due to COVID. He also lives with me in the house I bought. My biggest fault is not speaking my mind enough and being too nice. We started counseling for his COVID fear, but all it's done is made me finally see clearly that he's not the one for me. BUT, bc im too nice, I feel like I can't tell him to leave admist COVID due to his OCD. I still love and respect him, so i don't want to harm his mental health more than it is. It will most definitely be a very difficult break up. I tried about a lil over a yr ago and he threatened to kill himself!! I just feel so stuck.