I love how he is able to twist anything around to be MY fault.
And I love how he's now trying to guilt me into being with him. It doesn't work this way. By approaching me and saying all I have for him is hatred - well, yes this is true, but then to claim that I am blinded by my hatred and that I won't even look at HIS perspective on what happened - well, that's just more BS. He is still leaning on the police as an excuse and justification for his infidelity - even though just last week he had told me that no matter how hurt he was over that, that he never should have stepped out of line with another woman and hurt me in the way that he did. So, now his claim is that I won't even consider HIS perspective - that it's my way or the highway. Well, yes, it is because I am divorcing him and he must accept this reality.
I am thoroughly disgusted by all his manipulation tactics and attempts - just disgusted. I don't even know why I respond to these types of texts from him, simply to argue the points with him and when I just can't win no matter what I say. He has to win. It's SO pointless and it's exhausting and draining - not to mention, exasperating.
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"
~4 Non Blondes
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