I want to send this text to him, but I also want him to follow through on his claim that he will go to Honda today to the finance office to discuss the options for the car lease - I'm going to hold off on sending this for now:

I have spelled out on numerous occasions why I am divorcing you. Now you're trying to claim that I am too blinded by hatred to listen to or appreciate your perspective on things, to get help and to want to salvage our marriage.

You're trying to manipulate me, when the real truth is that you blew it. I've told you several times that you were given a second chance in July - I was about to divorce you then, but I gave you another chance. And then you did what you did with Jamie, and like I've stated many times, it was the final straw. It wasn't JUST a rough patch like you claim - you stepped out of line, you were dishonest with me and dishonorable, and you blew it with me. You continue to refuse to fully accept responsibility for all that you've done that has damaged both ME and our marriage, and you continue to use the police as a justification and an excuse for your behavior with Jamie.

I have told you that I don't trust you anymore, and that my feelings towards you have changed. I am not in love with you anymore, you do not make me happy, and I would never be able to trust you ever again. No amount of couples therapy would get me to change how I feel or what I want, and I want a divorce.