We have to work out the terms of the car lease within the divorce agreement before we can file for divorce. And the sticking point is the car lease.

I just spoke with my parents about the f'in car lease. I may just give up entirely, stay on the lease with the indemnity clause that says I can sue him if he stops payments on the car and if he refuses to pay for any damage to the car. The whole thing is a nightmare for me to deal with, and I honestly cannot deal with the fight anymore. I give up. He gets what he wants.