Your husband has done something very wrong. He hid money from you, he lied to you and he bought a trailer so he can hide things from you through a divorce. He wants a divorce and is trying to be sneaky about it. That shows his true colors and character to you. You are the one working and taking care of the household while this man does nothing and has weak excuses. More about his true character. I understand you're heartbroken, and naturally so, but he is being very selfish and I wouldn't want anything more to do with someone who can lie like that and do something so sneaky behind your back. I would be the one filing for divorce at this point - you deserve far better.