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Open Eyes · Jan 11, 2021 at 07:19 AM

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I feel that even though it has been painful and that I've humiliated myself and acted like a chump, I see things clearer on what I need and deserve, someone here me tioned that he can't give that me so it's best to let go, and let go and doing, it's hard, but the man I love is no longer there, his eyes are dead, his heart is elsewhere and he is too far gone into the rabbit hole. I am looking out for my kids and myself, that is the kind of live I need now.

All you did was try to be a good person and keep things together. No one is prepared for what you ended up having to contend with. And it's not about making excuses or justifying or having to sacrifice yourself because of this or that. Instead it's more about learning how to really see what is there and understanding how what is there is not going to fit into what you want it to be.