So Sorry to hear about what happened to you guys! i am REALLY HAPPY that your therapist is trying to help you, though, wolftrap, and Hopefully you will be able to get through this. We can't change the past but we can change how we react to it so that we can learn for coping with similar situations in the future. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @wolftrap, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!