If he is doing well you can probably get alimony and child support. Then you are entitled to at least half of property. Your lawyer is probably telling you all that. Try not to get into tit for tat’s emotionally as all that does is create emotional weights that pull you down. If you keep focusing on what you made happen then you won’t see how that can contribute to his being able to pay child support and other things.

You do have two beautiful children that you love. You will always have them to love too. Try not to sit and baste yourself in negative emotions but instead to focus on filling your life with healthier things/plans.