I havent read everything so excuse me if I am repeating anything.

I find it interesting also that you can ask just one questions as well.
Everybody has narcissistic traits, and to be labelled a narcissist generally speaking you need to tick off a lot more boxes. I find a lot of people call others narcissists these days, very openly on social media.
For myself, I'm aware I have narcissistic traits, I'm aware my ex probably did too. We're human after all. It would be good to know more about our specific traits that we have though.

Personally I want to answer this question so many ways in that I would confuse myself. I'd be part thinking, why does anyone *feel* they "have" to change? Through therapy I've learned a lot about the need for self acceptance and while that is a way of changing in itself, it makes me wonder why this question is so relevant to narcissism.

The other side to me feels I have a lot to grow and change.

The other thing is that change is inevitable, it's an interesting topic but I duno..