I’ve been watching dating shows, the Bachelorette for one. . It seems like the buzz word of today is ‘vulnerable’. So, I would think most all people dating, especially now, would say something like ‘sure I’m not perfect and have things to work on to improve’. With the vulnerable thing on the bachelorette, they all tell these really personal, sad things in order to be ‘vulnerable’, which is the desired necessity for the bachelorette to hear, or it is a deal breaker and they are sent away.

It’s incredibly cocky for someone to say they have nothing to improve. If someone said that, anyone would be turned off immediately.