Hey guys don`t take it wrong

I undertand how you may feel about it candyear and i am sorry you are going through this crap i know that it sucks,

Yeah i have some mistakes but most of them i think are more typing than spelling. Because when i write i have them less mistakes both in HEBREW AND English

You see i am sorry you got hurt because of those words. that poster said..i donno maybe if that was directed at me it was different. Maybe i woudl feel the way you did. Of course as you may figure out you may aviod posting personal things

But just don`t see A LOT of real offence in ths post.

I agree that if you are feeling junded and such you don`t want to do that again. I went to a forum where i posted something like:

how do you attract replys to your post? because no 1 ever responded

i worte i lones i felt and "who gives a %#@&#! about me?! and this is what i wrote. some wrote hugs and some wrote
and one of the unseweres was:
"so what? i too have topics which never get unswered. Don`t give it much of a meaning" something like that. and people told that poster she was harsh, However i even got some friendly PMs with that person and she turned out to be a warm nice woman...

There are people who are blunt. You never know if they are really that bad and careless, but i agree that if you are feeling that way and i am again sorry for you and wish you all the best for your health...that it`s not a good idea to scare you with deathstories..i don`t know...whatever that poster told you

See guys the facts that i didn`t see that offence and JUST ASKED what was it doesn`t mean i am judgmental about candybear - your feelings in response or your eating habbits.

It just shows how people are DIFFERENT and that`s o.k.

I am in no way meaning to hurt and despise you. My granfather is diabetic and i see what it is. I know that it`s all hard and it`s all pianful to have such issues in your health that are limmiting you

So don`t see me as some moster you who said (Lady macabeth is fortunaate that i don`t take her that serious)
If it annoys you the of course don`t I am not offended for that

But i didn`t mean to say anything bad, Now candybear i see why you ar feeling that way after you explained. that was a simple naive question

I just say that the "smart" part of the post was that we DO have responsibility in WHATEVER we are doing in life. Blame and shame and judgment are NOT part of the issue. But responsibily is the only way to UNDERSTAND that you CAN CHANGE THINGS

I suges to you candybear that you love yourself and BE jentle to yourslef and take care as much as you can to get out of it if it`s possible.

What is optimistic and we never see when we feel victims (scared terrified sad in pain and STUCK in it etc.) we don`t see. that everytihng is IN OUR HANDS adn we are able to chage it.

I agree that genetics and such are not. But you CAN keep your health better and it may get better and maye then when your sugar level is fine you can even eat some candy

I wish you all the best

There are people who DON`T POST ANYTHING personal inline and sometimes i consider it a good idea

anyways you just wanted to say that YOU KNOW ME and i am a particulary naive person and ANYBODY can have different undersding of things. it`s fine people don`t HAVE to see thing the same way

hugs