I much prefer relationship sex too, and it's by far my favourite part of being in a committed relationship. I have a tendency to marry or live with emotionally unavailable men, and sex is the only form of intamacy they offer. That's probably not good.

I would get quite pissy if sex was refused, because it's the only expression of love or communication that was offered. My sex drive didn't disappear when I was depressed either, I could handle no cuddling afterwards, but I still wanted some form of connection with another human being. It was a pleasant diversion from my depressed mind. But when I'm depressed I'm hardly alluring, so...

I haven't had a one night stand since I was ...geez, maybe 17. I'm a realtionship addict, serial monogamist type...so that's probably my biggest vice, now that I think of it.