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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue
Not sure I have any similar tips to offer. I tend to go from fine to terrible quite quickly, and it only happens at work (when I'm triggered by being told off, criticised, or bullied by a superior).
I find it incredibly difficult to stay on my own side, in that situation.
I'll think hard about what you've both said, thank you Fuzzy and Yaowen   |
I understand dear Purple, being told off, bullied and/or criticised by ''higher ups'' is a trigger for sure
(the thing is, they are not as superior as they think they are...(or at all if they are bullies) or if they are, its in ''status'' only, which is quite meaningless in the deeper scheme of things. Not that that helps me much either, I find it very hard to stay on my side in those situations too.