I realise I might have been the 'Guy' in our relationship. Messaging you, giving you gifts, being overly keen. I hate it when Guy does that to me, but the difference is I tell him I hate it. I never reciprocate so I don't encourage him. Is that what you are doing? I would rather plain old honesty from you.

Maybe I can see your wife for reiki and get some touch therapy that way. I wonder if you would let me do that.