I hate to speculate on your divorce, but IME nothing with either of your names will remain tied to the other, and he needs a vehicle to be able to earn a living. The negotiating for who gets what will be done by you both with lawyers. I was told going to the judge is the last resort and very expensive and to work it out before that. The judge, if used, will split it all down the middle (or whatever is typically done in short marriages in your case), and they don’t hear anything you want to tell them about any specifics. They quickly do the same judgment for everybody in similar circumstances.