Dear Here we go again,

I am so very sorry you are in this situation. How does one help a person who can't or won't seek help? I wish I had an answer. You mention that are going to counseling. Does you counselor have any advice for you about that situation? He or she should be able to give you some really helpful professional advice, I would think. I myself don't know what I would do if I was in your position. It sounds like such a dreadful situation.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen