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Old Jan 13, 2021, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by ann bog View Post
Sorry, I just wanted to check in. Hope your doing okay hope. I haven’t read all previous posts but at the top of this page it seemed like you were considering that. And I’m not trying to degrade you, I just know what it is like inside abusive relationships. You don’t realize it’s abusive until your out. Then I look back and couldn’t believe I let myself fall victim to such behavior. Sorry if I upset you. I was just trying to encourage you to continue to be strong and not allow him into your life any further.
That's Ok, @ann bog. I know you mean well and are wanting to be supportive. It's all good.

I just didn't understand why it was suggested I be friends with him. He's been SO abusive. He's a liar, a sneak and has no character. These are not the types of people I choose to associate with, as friends.

I wasn't saying that YOU personally were degrading me. I was saying that if I chose to remain friends with him that that itself would be degrading.
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