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Jan 13, 2021 at 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Victims aren’t always good ones. Victims often become perpetrators. And then some people have victim mentality, so they’ll milk their victimhood in detriment to others. They’ll make everyone to take care of them with 100 excuses and they’ll never accept responsibility, being a victim becomes their identity and they use others to their advantage. So certainly it’s not all black and white.
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I've been a victim of abuse in my childhood, and in my adulthood numerous times. I am none of the above. I am not a perpetrator nor am I a perpetual victim who needs to be saved by everyone else.
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