Thanks for the support. I'm much better now. The therapist I've mentioned actually told she can't help me, so I've found another one. Don't quite like her style yet. The group is also hers. It helps but when I leave it I become a bit more unstable.

I don't think therapists are supposed to lie to make us feel better. She told me what she believes is true. Of course, nobody can predict the future, stranger things happen than finding a loved one. But so far the reality matches her words.