Well, just to update everyone on the situation. We broke up this past weekend. Turns out after MONTHS of lying to me that he has been cheating on me with her for at least a month and a half. She is 18 YEARS OLD!!!! He is 34!!!! He says he is "in love" with her. He's only known her for about 5 months! I say he only THINKS he's in love with her because between that and making me out to be the bad guy he can justify his actions to himself.

The thing that makes me the maddest is that he not only cheated on me, lied about it over and over and over again and made my feel like everything was my fault in our relationship...he was bed hoping to boot. Now I have to go be tested to make sure he didn't give me anything. And what is funny is that when he finally admitted that he "loved" her it is because he knew we were going to talk and both he and she claim they only made out! I found out they did more from the person whos house they went to to get it on and asked for a condom (thank god).

I haven't let him know I am aware of it yet. I want to get all of my things from him first. Then, after i'm tested I am going to take the bill to where they both work and tell him loudly in the store that I expect him to pay for the test since it was HIS cheating and bed hoping that required me to get one since I don't know where SHE has been!

Oh, and SHE has known all along that he was lying to her and going back and forth between us, but yet she is still "in love" with him and they are a couple now. What a GREAT start to a relationship.....