The question is: do YOU want to make it work? Separation was your decision. So why did you decide this? What factors were involved? Have you been unhappy for a while? Has your husband been unhappy for a while? Have you tried to fix things in the marriage and talk about the problems together before you separated?

You don't have to answer these questions here - this is just to get you thinking about the reasons for the separation. Usually, when people decide to separate, it's for a good reason or for many good reasons. You seem ambivalent about it. Nothing is set in stone. You can always try to resolve the problems together - or not.