Talk about what you need to & when the conversation goes beyond that, HANG UP.
You don't have to talk about the emotional stuff but that takes STRENGTH on your part to take control & hang up instead of getting sucked into it. Bottom line is that we are the ones that allow ourselves to go the places we don't really want to be at times like this. Sometimes stuff like this can be used to develop our strength skills if we become aware & take the action that stops the emotional crap immediately before we get sucked in
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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