I have a dear friend with whom I've been friends for 52 years. That said, I have to set boundaries with her. She's extremely needy. I have repeatedly suggested that she seek therapy - and an antidepressant. She's always "trying" to do both, but "never can find the time." Although she knows I go to bed early (about 9 p.m.) she repeatedly calls me around 8 - 9 at night. Uh-uh. I do not answer, and I will not answer. Never. Period. I don't make excuses. I just plain do not pick up the phone after a certain time. To call you, Rose, at 10-something at night? You have got to be kidding!!! Just no.