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Originally Posted by Heartbroken138
My husband just made the decision to leave me. I had asked him to leave several times, as he is an abusive alcoholic.....he left and came back 3 times. Now he has gone to rehab and after asking for one last chance to save our marriage, he has now decided I'm the cause of all his problems (drinking, abuse, etc). I'm heartbroken, I thought rehab would help him and we could save our marriage. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Try staring a new thread. Abusers usually blame the people that love them for their problems. It is him, not you, so not for a second let him bkameshift his problems on you. This is on him, you did not make the decision of him being an addict, it is and has always been his decision.