True. I can't help him anymore, maybe his next victim has more endurance as they have known him like this and their romance has been between desert te es and granade explosions, he was a different person and that person is long gone. He left the military 10 years ago, but his job is related and just as stresful and full 🌝 f triggers. Add money and power to that plus first class tickets around the world traveling with cheaters and alcoholics, the perfect recipe for disaster, breeding grounds for cheating and detaching from your family. He knows that neither our children or I had done anything to deserve the abandonment and neglect. That is why he has sworn to generosity in the divorce and amicability/frie ship with me. Yes, I might just be the one stable friend he needs, or a healthy habit that reminds him if his former humanity and earlier