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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
GymGirl—^This touches on many underlying things about your relationship struggles that you put yourself into. How was your young childhood? Did you have a safe, loving environment with your parents? I wonder if all people who chase unrequited love have the young childhood trauma in common.
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
What positives are you getting out of this friendship? And why are you cleaning his house and cooking for him? I have male friends and none of them do that for me. Why put up with rudeness in a friendship? Is this the same guy you tried to break up with over and over again who is an alcoholic? If it is the same guy, he won't change. He is who he is and he's going to continue to treat you as he always has.
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I tried to find some positives, but they are not consistent. Normal friends meet for lunch now and then..that’s normal. Hanging out yes maybe once in a while that’s normal too. What isn’t normal is cooking for the two of us, sleeping over all the time like a pseudo girlfriend. I even mentioned how we rarely go out and normal friends do this. He had all kinds of excuses and the bottom line is the reason he doesn’t is because he doesn’t want to, and doesn’t feel like he has to make any sort of effort to keep the friendship alive because I’m always here.