yeah the repetitive speaches i get are "call me when you are in a bad spot" then she can't actually do anything and it is pointless to call "just want you to know i'm here". great what does this do for me? or the other pair... "I really want you to stop c*tting, let's find other things you can do." then while in the middle of panic attacks and flashbacks she tells me "cope the best way you can" (we all know what is my "best way").