Dear ScarletPimpernel,

I am so very sorry that happened to you. Things like that can be so distressing and stressful. I wish I knew something that would be helpful to you, but sadly I don't. Sometimes the passage of time can take care of these things. And sometimes not. I think your feelings are very understandable in the circumstances and sure hope things will work out for the best. So sorry I could not be helpful to you in this. Perhaps others here will see and read your post and have better words for you than my poor words!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen