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Old Jan 17, 2021, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
If you get offered a job, do not inform him because his pleading will intensify. If he really wanted to work on himself, he’d not beg to move back in. He’d be ok living separated and working on it. He’d respect the distance

He pleads to move back to save a buck. If you must inform him don’t tell him your salary. I hate being jaded but he can’t make it on his own and can’t find a replacement that fast so he must move back in to make it through and be able to feed his addictions

He already asking you for money and he didn’t leave that long ago. If he’d be so remorseful and so willing to improve he’d not ask you for money! What are you sugar momma, you don’t even work now

He already blew through 900 you gave him and he still didn’t hire a truck to move his stuff. He is out of money already. Don’t buy anything he is saying please and ignore the pleading
I’m definitely ignoring his pleading. I wouldn’t ever tell him my new salary. But if I get this job I must tell him so he can take me off his health insurance. I know... he seems desperate. But he wraps it all up in statements of love and missing me dearly etc etc.
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