wow! how awesome is this for you!
i have a mystery going on involving a similiar ansestry discovery made by someone else who found out only a partial detail that she is the child of either my dad or 1 of his 3 brothers.. traces back to that bloodline and with only 1 of those 4 still alive and him not the most "people friendly or a fond fan of human interaction" .. i doubt that will ever be solved exactly who her dad was.
she got in contact with a distant kin of ours via ansestry site and that is all ive gathered from 2nd hand info. if i could see what she looks like id be pretty sure id be able to tell... ive got pros and cons and possible sceneros how it would be possible for any 1 of them to have been in the right place during the right time frame and im not able to find an alibi to be able to positive eliminate any of them.
in all honesty im a bit unnerved and angry at the the 1 in that bunch with total lack of human decency to never mention to his child to the rest of the family that shares her blood child .
unless the mom never even told him about the kid to begin with but somehow that doesnt sound like what went down because it just doesnt fit right to make it all add up.
that whole bunch including my dad have shown me some of their inconscionable sidies to their behavior over the years and i wouldnt put it past any of them to have known about it and just never gave a dang care one in the world and disapeared out of the picture.
i guess i would like to try & fill in some of her blank spaces about the dad she never met and the family she never got to know.. but that seems to make things worse for her to know what all she never knew she had missed out on...
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