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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Good memory, @ TishaBuv! Although that person you speak of is a different ex from my ex fiance. My husband only knows of my ex fiance. They never met, and my ex fiance lived in another state down south. |
Thanks for clarifying. I was wondering, if your h knew him, why he didn’t say he felt bad he has passed (aside from not giving you condolences). You are really reaching to keep wanting loving behavior and validation from a man who didn’t give you that while you were together. You are banging your head in the wall. I doubt my h would give me condolences on any ex of mine who passed, even at the best of relationship times because he’d be jealous to even hear about them.
When divorcing, do people typically keep daily contact and keep a close emotional relationship, and seeking validation? I see how you are all over the place emotionally, back and forth on this. (Someone even more shaky may be doing this dance for 25 years
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I understand it is very emotional for you and you have plenty of mixed feelings about your ex’s passing. I’m sorry it happened.
