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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I agree and am glad to see you get out of a bad situation. Also, your h is more of a drain on you than an asset, financially, emotionally, things you like to do. You have a few things in common you both enjoy. There is also substance abuse issue.
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TishaBuv, thank you!!!
You said it!!!! He IS a drain on me in SO many ways. And he continues to drain me. I had a nice respite from him yesterday with very little texting and no arguing. We don't need to talk today either for any reason, so I get more of a break from him.
And yes, he has substance abuse issues, or addiction rather. I have been drinking more lately, but I know I can curb the habit and I don't need alcohol in order to feel good or right side up in my life.