oh and I took your advice about the boundaries thing with my friends on fb. I finally blocked one more - the one that I was having the most trouble blocking because I love her dearly - but her posts more than the others were really becoming toxic to me. ANYway, I did it, and this morning looking at my facebook feed was like a breath of fresh air. Like, I can breathe again and not have to worry about what she's gonna say next. I'm a little sad that I have to let her go. I have my memories of the good times, but now it's time for me to take care of myself.