Werewoman, I have a physical problem that has taken away many of the things I used to love doing. Some days I'm okay with the limitations. Others, I rant and rave about how unfair it is. You go ahead and have your pity party hon. Some days we just have to give into it. When I'm having one of those days I give myself a time limit on how long I'm allowed to feel sorry for myself. Then I dust myself off and get on with life.