Well I do believe for the first time in a long time...I am speechless. I new Tam. We were no close but we chatted a lot over the years. It will certainly be...different without her in chat anymore. She was always kind to everyone...or at least tried to be....some people just would not allow you to be nice to them. May she rest in peace. I will remember her in my nightly ritual where I talk to an invisible man in the sky or another dimension and ask him to look after her. She was good people. I know everyone who knew her is feeling her loss and i am truly sorry, I know grief is hard. And I know a thing or two about getting through it. MY sympathies to all her closest friends here. Jill Shaw