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Old Jan 21, 2021, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I thought you were going to wait to tell him, you’ll need to tell because of health insurance but he didn’t need to know now. He’s going to start asking you for money even more than now and you’d likely pay for him picking up his stuff. He isn’t in a hurry to get his stuff. Well he hopes to move right back in.
I told him because he can take me off his health insurance in a month, so I wanted him to know he only needs to pay for one more month for me.

Like I was saying above, I am not good at boundaries and definitely need to keep working at it. It was SO hard not to share the good news with him. I was beaming with joy and I was all alone in my apartment, celebrating by my lonesome self - not fun. All I wanted was for him to be here to celebrate with me. I think my feelings are conflicted. Maybe I still care for him. I'm confused.
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