"Now here I'm saddle with lawyers and the ****** process of dismantling our family, while he is out basking on his success that I HELPED him build. He is on top of his game right now, today the fruits of his hard work and mine and our children have come to fruition".

This resonated with me! I too built my husband's wonderful life, gave him all of me, gave him 4 beautiful children and a safe, relaxing home. Until he decided life is dull and gets to go out and have fun with whoever he wants and not have any retribution from doing so.

Most men don't effing care about nesting. Most are like wild animals, they see an attractive female and instinct kicks in that they have to get their attention and F them. **** gets boring and difficult to deal with and they are off to the pasture again looking for excitement!

Hang in there. One day you will look back and wonder how the hell you got thru this but you will also realize that you will never do that **** again!