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Originally Posted by Que Sera Sera
i am so overwhelmed by how far behind of a mess ive got here now i have no idea what to do about it.
im ashamed and embarrased and upset with myself for letting it get like this.
i dont know where to start, what to do 1st, how to manage all of this myself... im afraid to ask for help because i dont want to cause some type of situation that will get me into trouble with the enormity of the disaster they might decide needs to intervein further into.. i dont want friends or family to see how bad ive let it get.. i dont want strangers come in and start getting into things and bulling and bossing and pitching stuff without cause ..
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I am right there with you. I finally broke down last weekend and told my sister how I was struggling. She came over the next day and helped me go through boxes (from moving 6 months ago) and we cleared one room. She didn't make any derogatory comments and was quite supportive. She's coming back this weekend if her chemo goes well.