Hi dsmith it’s good that you wrote out your frustration and asked for help. I am sorry you are so frustrated and it sounds like your wife expects others to be able to keep up with her desire to work at such a fast pace. Ugh I can relate as my husband can be like that and it can actually get intrusive as he can take over my personal mental space. You sound like a person that needs to be able to work at your own pace and have your own mental space.

It sounds like your wife cares but doesn’t understand your need for space and can get stressed when having to keep up with her pace. My husband has adhd and I can’t keep up with his pace at all. I don’t think I would fair well working with him in a business so I hear you. Can you find something you can do that is separate from your wife?