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Old Jan 22, 2021, 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
He is doubling his effort. He can’t manage to survive till the end of the month or get movers without asking your for money but he buys flowers. Be careful telling him your salary, he’ll shower you with gifts (probably asking you to lend him money to pay for said gifts) in hopes to get back in. The guy is smart. He knows what’s he doing. Of course there is no crime to get back with him but sadly it won’t be long before drama will start again. Just be careful
Yes - I know, and you're correct. He's trying to weasel his way back in. He's probably wooing other women at the same time, I am sure.

I will not get back together with him. I have got to remain steadfast and strong. Yes, admittedly he is able to pull on my heartstrings a bit, but then I snap back to reality and know that it's all manipulation and is not real.

I have not told him my salary and definitely will not be telling him, though I think it may become known through the divorce paperwork.
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Thanks for this!
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