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Originally Posted by cookiepie234
Thank you so much for this  I agree with ghosting being awful-I’ve never done it before and I was feeling really guilty thinking that I had just ghosted this friend by ignoring her last Text, but I suppose since we had already gone a month without speaking, then a couple of messages then another couple of weeks without speaking, it wasn’t really ghosting. And if she reached out actually asking what was wrong, I would be open to communicating with her.
Thank you again |
You're welcome.
Just do what is right for YOU in this situation. Ghosting is definitely very hurtful.
You can be gentle and kind and fade away without ghosting and without hurting her terribly.
From what you wrote above, she does not sound considerate of other people's feelings when she disappears. You are considerate and inform people of why you've disappeared for a couple days.
I find that I need friends who are on the same level as me - if they are not, they are not a good friend of mine.