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Old Jan 22, 2021, 06:24 AM
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Yeah well it’s not a gift.

Gift would be he bought something he could afford and paid whatever it costs (if he could only afford 25 bucks that’s what he had to buy and it would be an honest memorable gift) and he gave it to you.

He makes zero sense convincing you to buy something for yourself even if he paid for some of it. In the very worst case scenario he borrowed money from someone to buy you stuff but not borrow from you to buy for you. Especially something very expensive and something he can’t afford to buy.

His “gift” giving makes no sense. These aren’t gifts. Even buying you flowers is stupid if he asks you to cover him every month. I’ve met people in variety of financial situations but I’ve never heard anyone doing anything of the sorts. He has no shame

You are way too nice. When is he moving stuff out
Thanks for this!
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