It’s a tough spot to be in for sure, we are on speaking terms and so want to figure something out. We still love each other, as much as we can right now anyway, and want to work out something at the very least. But the guy that got her pregnant is not an great guy and definitely won’t be leaving her alone ever and will probably make life harder for no real reason. She says she doesn’t want his baby but she does want a baby, and she is worried that aborting this one due to health problems she won’t ever get another chance... also I’m unable as well so this really is the only way we were ever going to have a family but I don’t know if this will be worth the heart break and soul crushing realizations....