I abhor long commutes and refuse to do them. So, yeah, I will save money over the next few months and then will move ASAP.

He actually bought my engagement ring and wedding rings.

But get this. Whenever we argue over who has spent more in this relationship, I always reference the fact that I alone paid 8K for our honeymoon and wedding and that he only spent $900 on our wedding rings. Then he tries to throw into the mix the fact that he spent 5K on my engagement ring. He tried to claim that that was our deal - he buy the engagement and wedding rings, and I pay for the honeymoon. WRONG! We didn't even talk about our honeymoon until several months after we got engaged. He bought my engagement ring as a gift! And it was NEVER a part of our financial arrangement or agreement. He's such a LIAR.