@dsmith you are not a Debbie downer. Instead you are frustrated and needed to vent. Yes the past year has been very stressful for a lot of people. It’s understandable how it’s been difficult working with your wife and being coupled up. As I mentioned my husband has adhd and he hates being cooped up. He just goes for a ride so he experiences the motion that calms him down. Maybe you would fair better if you took breaks and walked? If you drink coffee maybe cut back? One thing I know is those with adhd have to be able to work at their own pace.

My husband got frustrated with the political drama as well. So you are not alone in that.