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Old Jan 23, 2021, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
I have given him two months and a deadline of Jan 31st. How else do I enforce it? I have been adamant with him, but I cannot force him to do a single thing.
Oh so he still has time. I thought deadline already passed. Never mind then. Two months is unusually long. But ok. At least he had dead line. Well you will enforce it on January 31st by asking police department to be present and if he doesn’t come his stuff goes outside.

You need to call them and ask about course of action if former tenant isn’t picking their stuff up. Then you tell landlord to change locks on February 1st because you now live alone and don’t want former tenants entering.

I know you want to be nice but being so nice and accommodating to these terrible men serves no purpose. How is it working out for you? It’s not. Time to stop being nice and get real. If he isn’t done by February 1st, his stuff goes on the curb side

PS he is possibly stalling because you still emotionally connected by contacting him and sharing your news and ask for his emotional support etc he likely thinks he doesn’t need to rush as he will be bringing it all back soon enough. Cut the ties and kick his stuff out
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Have Hope