((Candybear))) I am so sorry you had such a rough experiance there. I understand the sentiment behind the post you sighted, but it was worded very badly and was indeed insensative to you as a person. We should never attempt to judge others until we get to know them. Not everyone fits a mold or sterotype, in order to really help someone we have to get to know them a bit. That person without knowing your circumstances in life was really out of line.

I hope none ever acts that way toward you here in PC

Take care

TJ